tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post7774546845306873588..comments2023-08-20T05:54:36.166-07:00Comments on A Birth Mother Voice: This Is Not Adoption, So Don't Bring The Word Into This Case!Kelsey Stewart, Authorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-66637470068516218982012-02-21T20:30:14.601-08:002012-02-21T20:30:14.601-08:00What does the man say? Does he admit to the fraud,...What does the man say? Does he admit to the fraud, or just to the affair? There are always two sides to every story. <br /><br />It's an adoption case because apparently the woman signed her rights away, allowing the baby to be adopted. I imagine the father is saying that he didn't commit the fraud, that the mother knew what she was doing, and is now trying to get the baby back by claiming fraud. <br /><br />On the face of it, the man is scum. Certainly the courts found the woman had signed the papers under duress, so the adoption should be overturned. <br /><br />I just wonder what the guy's story is, and what his wife's is... Weird!Robyn Chttp://wordpress.chittisterchildren.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-40142021483317105002012-02-21T14:32:29.676-08:002012-02-21T14:32:29.676-08:00Von, my first thought when I hear the story in it&...Von, my first thought when I hear the story in it's entirety I thought to myself that he DID do this purposely. After what he has done to this woman since the baby was born, I would not put it past him that this was all premeditated.<br /><br />And thank you for clarifying what you wrote before. I now see it clearly.Kelsey Stewart, Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-24483043625152428432012-02-21T14:30:44.955-08:002012-02-21T14:30:44.955-08:00Could not agree more LeMira!Could not agree more LeMira!Kelsey Stewart, Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-87216682503530352792012-02-21T14:20:06.071-08:002012-02-21T14:20:06.071-08:00Agree so hope the justice system does the right th...Agree so hope the justice system does the right thing by this woman and her child.Do you think he deliberately deceived her in order to take the child?<br />When I referred to children taken illegally I was referring to cases where a mother consents due to a crisis but the transfer to carers is not legal leaving the child in limbo, not officially an adoptee, unable to discover identity or to ever know who they are, not quite foundlings but certainly under the radar.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-87722632181065691932012-02-21T13:48:34.562-08:002012-02-21T13:48:34.562-08:00How did this man justify this with his wife?! I m...How did this man justify this with his wife?! I mean, this just makes me ill. The baby has a wonderful mother who loves her. How would he justify this to his child? <br /><br />I agree this is kidnapping, NOT adoption. I don't care what that family calls it; I can't figure out how this situation is a legal adoption with fraud involved. . .LeMirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02196699524583350846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-29416804422012094922012-02-21T11:10:18.033-08:002012-02-21T11:10:18.033-08:00I agree Von, about the cases which you bring as an...I agree Von, about the cases which you bring as an example. I think you and I know that there have been many women in history who have been tricked into adoption and have it stand as legal.<br /><br />My issue with this case is the fact that this despicable man who was a fraud from the beginning has any right at all. He was in a marriage already, he lied to this woman for 18 months, and then used a piece of paper that she signed to call it all adoption. I don't see this as an adoption case at all. It was kidnapping. Pure and simple. If he was using a alias, living life as a lie then the COURTS should see this as fraud, but they are not. They have attached the word adoption to this case and it is just not so. <br /><br />I have read many articles and researched numerous cases where what I am saying above(kidnapping) does apply to what happens in adoption. But this woman simply let the father of her child spend some time with their daughter, only to be slapped in the face by the judicial system under the blanket that "adoption" papers were signed. I don't understand how the courts can even think twice in this case. I sure hope she keeps talking, keeps raising awareness and does get her daughter back.<br /><br />As always, thanks for reading and adding your wisdom and thoughts to this topic!Kelsey Stewart, Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-36769246186775969722012-02-21T10:33:33.301-08:002012-02-21T10:33:33.301-08:00Many situations where a child is taken illegally a...Many situations where a child is taken illegally and raised by others can be described as adoption. Think of it from the childs/adoptees perspective.The situation is bad enough for many who are the victims of grey market adoption or other means of acquiring children without doing as other mothers have done in denying their rights to include themselves which causes enormous distress and aloneness.We have seen examples during tyhe Aust.Government Inquiry into forced adoption when the mothers of origins have been particularly cruel about wanting strict categories for adoptees. Isn't it up to the adoptee once they are of age? Hopefully in the case you mention this child will be retrieved and justice will be done.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.com