tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post1184423349675055079..comments2023-08-20T05:54:36.166-07:00Comments on A Birth Mother Voice: Birth Mother's Day ... Differing ViewsKelsey Stewart, Authorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11772746376820263241noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-22855050551687064752015-07-16T07:11:13.383-07:002015-07-16T07:11:13.383-07:00I am adopted, and it hurts me to think of my mothe...I am adopted, and it hurts me to think of my mother. She now has a son, I'm afraid that she loves me, she loves him and not me. I want to ask you mothers: what do you feel when you give the child up for adoption? I read that many mothers write "I really love my son." But what do you feel concretely for this child? My mother was happy to know that I'm okay, and that I seek her, but relatives say she was a bad woman, who did not care much about his children. <br />Answer me please, you do not grow the children that you gave up for adoption, so I want to ask you: why do you love this child? what you feel for him? you worry for him? if hem die or has an accident do you worry as they worry her adoptive parents? <br />the relationship that a (birth) mother has with her child is not the same relationship that you have with a child that you grow for a lifetime. My (adoptive) mother worries a lot to me, she loves me, she knows my character and how I react to events, my (birth) mother does not know anything about me, so why she should love me? i don't judje, but think about that hurts me so much, i want to understand, i want to have a testimony from a (birth) mother.<br />Update: What would you do for that child? would you kill urself for him? I think that love we must built, as well as the relationships, just maternal instinct isn't enough......Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2954722762708102532.post-49236433007869037452013-05-07T07:38:01.861-07:002013-05-07T07:38:01.861-07:00Thanks for the shout out, Kelsey! And for sharing ...Thanks for the shout out, Kelsey! And for sharing your voice.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.com